Introducing Rev. Dr. Irene Goldberg to my blog...

Welcome,

When Sean first tied me up and ravished me so splendidly, I was confused by my mixed emotions.  Part of me was ecstatic and the other was guilty … like I had been a bad girl.  What it may have been, ultimately was finding my GOOD GIRL.  

I was silent about this guilty pleasure and hid any sign of it from everyone.  Sean was the only person who knew.  It took me years to unravel my fear of people knowing I was someone who loveddddd being tied up and made love to by my man. And yet, loving bondage made me feel somewhat schizo.

As good fortune would have it, in 2011, I met Dr. Irene at a friend’s home.  My friend told me Dr. Irene has her Doctorate of Divinity in Interdisciplinary Studies, Certification as Physician of the Soul, and is an Ordained All Faiths Minister.  And she counsels people in having outstanding relationships and satisfying intercourse…both carnal and verbal.  

What impressed me most about Dr. Irene at that first encounter was her being joyous. I asked her what her secret was and she said, “Being fearless is an art form.  It is a stand for being fully alive no matter what the situation; I can take a breath and be my truth. Joy is simply an outcome of that.”  
I knew she would lead me to some freedom in my guilty pleasures and took her business card.  

After our first counseling session, I asked her to be our sexpert for our website, sexybondagerestraints.com, click. That was the beginning of a wonderful journey for us both.

With Dr. Irene’s coaching, I have gone from reluctant bad girl/submissive to empowered surrender. My trust of Sean, my Dom, expands continuously in our bedroom trysts and in our business too where I am his boss.   




And I’m beginning to see what surrendering is really about… being fearless.  For some it’s jumping from a plane tethered to someone else… not me. For me and many, many others, it’s discovering how being bound is the opening to exploring emotions and feeling of trust, abandonment, fear of being hurt, being undeserving, being alone for example.  And the freedom that follows is wonderful outcome of really hot sex.



Play hard, play nice.  Love Bianca