Naughty or Nice… what do you want for Christmas, does your Mister know?

Twenty-five years ago this past June, I married Sean with family and friends surrounding us.  It was a glorious wedding and equally outstanding, yet brief honeymoon.

Sean had it all planned and packed a bag of “sex-play goodies” to take along with a dessert package the caterer boxed up for us to enjoy later.  We arrived at the Inn of the Dove in Cherry Hill and walked into a suite including a small swimming pool, a Jacuzzi hot-tub, a king-size bed and ample double shower with bench and all the spray heads you could ever desire.
  
So what was in the bag transformed the already decadent room into a sex chamber and it was all ours for 36 hours, when Sean whisked me off to the airport for meetings in San Francisco for the next 3 weeks.  He quickly transformed the bed into a bondage heaven and the fun began.  We never got dressed in more than the hotel’s plush white bathrobes the entire stay. (Putting an under-bed, 4-point system in is quick and easy, I was surprised, click.) 

To this day, our bedroom at home or away is still our haven for bondage sex, intimate talks and couple’s solitude. 

What are your desires, does your Mister know what you might enjoy or do you leave it to him.  Set up your own Wish List click .   Remember Christmas is coming and when you don’t know what you might like, take it from a sexpert, ask me, or use examples I’ve talked about here in my blog.  Also, ask me questions if you are so inclined.  If I don’t know how to answer, I’ll ask our consultant/coach, Rev. Dr. Irene Goldberg for her take. She’s been so great in having my concerns with being naughty reframed into seeing bondage as a surrendering to peace, trust and joy. Thanks Dr. Irene.

Play Hard, Play Nice, Bianca